Gay people are not damaged as a matter of course

[christopher575]

You know, when people have asked what kind of guy I find attractive and I answer "older bald guys", I've been asked so many times if my dad or an older male relative molested me. What the hell is up with that? If a woman says she likes older, bald men, I don't think anyone will ask her the same thing.

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[sgtred.livejournal.com]

I've been asked that outright once, and it's been joked about in roundabout ways many times (Santa's lap, dad, uncles, etc.).

But I'm not attracted to them because of what they physically look like so much as I love the glint of jaded "been there, done that" which clings to their demeanor. Hugh Laurie in House make me wet.

[monsterbrain.livejournal.com]

But I'm not attracted to them because of what they physically look like so much as I love the glint of jaded "been there, done that" which clings to their demeanor. Hugh Laurie in House make me wet.

This.